Every year I look forward to Christmas. I like setting up the Christmas tree with my family and reminiscing over old ornaments and past Christmases.
For the last 4 years it has just been my fiancé and myself setting up the Christmas decorations. While I sometimes miss the loud and crazy times, I have come to appreciate and love the quietness of our new Christmas tradition. I am one of those people who have the “show home tree”. I have 3 separate sets of tree decorations that I rotate every year. Each has their own matching color scheme with a few accent colours to really make the tree “POP”. Having no kids, it’s easy for me to avoid the homemade ornaments and the haphazard look of children’s decorating. I’ve been told that once I have children, I will love the above-mentioned tree; however, I think I might go with the new trend that’s starting – a small tree for the children to decorate and the main tree for me.
I say “me” but to be fair my fiancé does help me decorate. He helps me pull out the tree, set it up, and put the lights on. He is then happy to sit back and put on a favorite Christmas movie while watching me finish decorating. (Side note *** As I re-read what I have written I do realize I sound like a decorating tyrant – but my fiancé isn’t one of those patient decorators. He’d be more than happy stopping with lights.) I ask his opinion on the placement of ornaments and he lets me know where I need more, or where I need to take away a few.
After the tree, I set up the Christmas village and my collection of snow globes. Every year I debate setting up a few of the statues that we have been given as gifts, and every year they go back into the box with the excuse of “no more room for knickknacks”.
This routine has become our Christmas tradition. It may not be the tradition that I grew up with, but it works really well for us. While I like the loud, chaotic pace of my extended family, I love the nice, quiet evening I get to spend with my partner.