My son is in grade four this year. He loves to read – he’s like a sponge soaking up every great book he can get his hands on.
This year, he got to join the school’s book club. He was so excited, especially since the next book he wanted to read “The Lost Hero” by Rick Riordan was on the list. He got the book, read it in two weeks and proudly handed it in… at which time he was handed a book report sheet and told he needed to fill it out to get credit for it.
He came home and put it on the table and said “I hate book reports.” I explained, reluctantly, that if he wanted to be in the book club this was one of the requirements (even though I didn’t know about it before and I don’t think I totally agree with it). He is actually debating not being in the book club because of this. It doesn’t mean he’ll stop reading, but it really killed the joy of it for him.
So what do we do? I understand book reports are used as a comprehension tool and to double check that someone has read the book, but what a turn off for the already reluctant reader! Is it so bad, especially for a “club” if they can just say they read the book (I think it’s a different conversation for book reports that are school assignments, which have multiple ways to do them – reports, posters, building something)?
I’m at a loss. I think I will be talking to the librarian, but what angle to I take? Any thoughts out there??
By the way, the “Percy Jackson and the Olympians” series by Rick Riordan is a great read for young and old (my son’s the young and I’m the old).
If you’re not a reader, there are many reasons why you should become one.
A large chunk of my adult life did not include reading books for enjoyment. I was too busy, so I skimmed and scanned a lot of magazines and read the necessary work-related articles, never taking the time to enjoy a good book. I had other things asking of my time. Almost 10 years ago when my father was very ill, I found myself in a hospital room, followed by sleepless nights. I had to figure out a way to distract myself.
That’s when the book, an old friend, came back into my life. Oh, how I missed this friend! Like a true friend, the book was there for me, (if I hadn’t misplaced it). The book waited patiently for me to find it – I had unconditional love. It didn’t judge me if other priorities came up and I reconnected three days later. Every day, my friend took me on adventures. I missed the fun we had together.
If you find yourself in need of a friend, ask a book to be a part of your life.
When you think about reading with a child, chances are you imagine reading the words on the page out loud while the child looks at the pictures. But what would you do if there were no words in the book to read?
A good picture book will tell most, if not all, of the story through the photos or illustrations. By describing the things that you see in the pictures, you can bring the story to life. You may not think you are a better storyteller than the author or illustrator, but you know your child better than anyone, so you can add another level to the book that will appeal more to your child.
Try giving the characters the same names as family members and friends, and relate the story to your child’s own experiences. Take turns telling the story to each other, or have your child play the part of the main character and explain what they are doing, or guess what they would be thinking or saying.
If your child doesn’t feel like telling a story, maybe they would rather talk about the pictures. You might be surprised by what they notice and what draws their attention. I had a great time playing I-spy games with my niece; she loved having me guess which tiny obscure item on a page she was thinking of. So, even without a story, there are lots of opportunities to explore all kinds of ideas and language.
Speaking of language, this is a perfect way to share a book that is written in a language that you can’t read. It’s also great for times when the book is much wordier than you or your child’s patience will tolerate, or even if you just don’t like how it’s written. Don’t be afraid to ignore the words on the page and tell your own story, in your own words.
So please, go and find yourself a nice picture book to read, and tell me how you liked it. I will even give you a short list of wordless books to try, in case you don’t know where to start:
- Deep in the Forest by Brinton Turkle
- The Chicken Thief by Béatrice Rodriguez
- Chalk by Bill Thomson
Let me know how you and your children like them. Or how it went over in your book club. Don’t let the word count fool you; good picture books have something for everyone.
Working as a facilitator on the Alberta Prairie Classroom on Wheels Bus (the C.O.W. Bus) I often hear questions about the different types of books and how to get children interested in reading. There are a lot of different responses that I can give to this question.
There are interactive books that are great for catching and keeping the interest of a child (see Kim’s previous post on Press Here by Hervé Tullet), “touch and feel” books that provide a multitude of textures that entertain kids, especially young kids, and “seek and find” books like I-Spy and Where’s Waldo that can hold a child’s interest for hours while they try to find all the different items listed and as well as the other items unlisted. Truth be told, they still entertain me for hours.
However, my favorite response is to make the books personal. Create a story featuring your child. You can use photos of your child as the illustrations and create a story around the pictures. It can be as simple as linking colors to outfits (insert photo) or as complex as a novel. Creating a personal story can also be a great way to spend time, and to interact with your children. Involve them in the process – have them pick out the pictures they want to use or have them create the story and you write it down. Small photo albums work perfectly for holding the photos as well as cue cards to write the story on.
One mom shared a great idea she uses for personalizing a story. She used her children’s photos and pasted them over the existing faces in the book. Her children instantly became part of their favorite stories and will have fantastic keepsakes for when they grow up. She found that board books worked better due to their durability.
What do a preschooler, a six, nine and eighteen year old, and any adult I’ve seen so far have in common? We all have to press the button!
Here at Centre for Family Literacy, we recently came across an excellent children’s book called Press Here by Hervé Tullet. Anyone who knows me at all knows that I like to press buttons and ring bells, so of course the book landed on my desk very quickly.
As I went through, following the directions on each page – pushing and rubbing dots, shaking the book, blowing on it – I kept thinking, “my kids would love this! Who am I kidding – I LOVE IT!”
In the end though, it did make it home and I tested it out on my niece (4), my daughter (6), and my son (9). It started out tentatively; they pushed the button as I held the book. As it got more interactive, suddenly the book was ripped out of my hands in their anticipation to shake the dots to the other side of the page. Pretty soon, I didn’t even need to be there (but I was, because I was doing it all too of course).
I took the story of my family’s response back to the office and was informed by one of our team that she had walked in on her 18 year old interacting just as enthusiastically with the book as my kids and niece had.
I have heard nothing but the same stories of fun family interaction more times than I can count now in relation to this book. As I watched one young teenage girl self-consciously start looking at the book and doing what it asked, I could tell that she really wanted to get into it, but was asking herself if it was a cool thing to do.
“Isn’t it weird that you know it’s a book, but you really feel the need to do everything it asks?” I asked her. She nodded in agreement and I said, “go ahead, we’ve all done it”.
I sat back and smiled as she made the decision that it was fun and okay and had a blast with the rest of the book.
Now that’s how you take the measure of a great book!
I am always telling my son how important reading is. When he has to read a book for school, I start crossing my fingers, hoping, this will be the book that catches his interest. So far, I can’t say it’s happened. He says that he already reads a lot! He reads at school, reads his daily portion of phone texts and he certainly has a lot of words to read on his Facebook page. What about the games he plays on his PS3? He’ll even read a tutorial if it provides him a better chance to win against the aliens and his friends.
Am I starting be a part of a generation gap that I will never understand? Will I look back one day and say I should have tried harder to get my son to read a book? Or will this be a reflection back on my parenting style and I’ll be able to smile and say I worried about nothing?
The Centre was recently invited to speak at an author reading at McDougall United Church. Marina Endicott read aloud some of her favourite passages from her second book, Good to a Fault.
It was an interesting read exploring what it means to be “good,” but what was really intriguing was hearing the author speak about living with these characters and how she didn’t like many of them, but felt sorry that she kept making bad things happen to them.
Having the author explain how she came up with the characters’ motivations and beliefs was fascinating and changes the way you have understood and perceived the story originally.
Have you heard an author speak about their book before? What did you think?
During my earlier school days, the girls would get together and make the paper “Fortune Teller” game. That was always a sure-fire way to magically predict who loved you, who thought you were pretty and how many boyfriends you had.
Now I am a parent. When my son was young, I used the game to entertain and support his emerging literacy skills. This simple but creative activity introduced him to colours, spelling, numbers and counting, and when he was old enough he cut his own piece of paper into a square, and this helped to develop dexterity. He loved it! I encourage you to take a square piece of paper next time you eat out. Most restaurants will have crayons. All you need is someone to talk to while your child is busy creating your fortune!